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Creative first date ideas—what to do on a first date

Creative First Date Ideas That Get Things Sexually Charged

You want a creative first date ideas to get things sexual.

Coming up with creative first date ideas can really make a difference in how a woman sees you.

The first date you have with a girl can make or break the entire relationship.

It can be the difference between never seeing her again and seeing her for breakfast the next morning.

Well, here are some creative first date ideas that work with women of all ages.

I’ve gone on these dates in the last year with an 18 year old girl up to a 47 year old woman. They have all ended up in bed.

The key is to do something that stimulates her mind and body. Doing something exciting that she’s never done before is perfect.

You want it to be something you are either good at, like to do, or are excited to try out.

I would also like you to think about doing something where the focus of the first date isn’t on you and her. You want the pressure off of you.

That means doing something active whether that’s walking an art museum or skydiving, you don’t want the focus of the date to be getting to know each other. Getting to know each other will happen naturally as you do things together.

It also helps if there is an element of danger, or perceived danger, to the first date. I’m thinking anything from shoplifting to a roller coaster to whitewater rafting to crashing a wedding.

And yes, I have done all those things on a first date and… I can tell you that it leaves a lasting impression and years later these women remember you.

So, here are a few creative first date ideas for you.

Going to a shooting range is a great first date idea. It gets things sexually charged and turns women on.

The Shooting Range First Date
Go to a shooting range. This one is cool even if you aren’t great with guns. Something snaps in the brain of most women when they hold so much power in the palm of their hand. They get turned on. Incredibly turned on. There’s something about blasting away at a target that gets women hot and bothered.

Even women you might not think would get into this will love it. All the better if you have something that “blows up” when you hit it, like a milk jug full of water.

The Sneak In Somewhere First Date
Sneak in somewhere. This is a really creative first date idea and they have been some of my favorite first dates. You go to the zoo or the train yard after dark. If you’re a good talker, talk your way backstage to an event. If you’re a good talker but not THAT good, sneak into the pool at your local hotel.  Crash a wedding or a party at the park.

The Playground First Date
Go to the local park and play on the swings, hang out on the monkey bars, and play on the slides. This sounds really dorky, but this is really fun. It’s a good day or night date, especially for online dating where women want to meet you during the day and in public sometimes. I’ve made a killing with this one.

There you go… three of my favorite first date ideas. For lower-key dates that still go great, check these low key dates. And for first date ideas, check out this post.